One of my New Year’s Goals is to do something every week that pushes me out of my comfort zone. It’s #14 on my list.
I originally came up with this idea a few months ago while stumbling upon the book My Year With Eleanor by Noelle Hancock.

I thought the book was such an interesting concept. It all began with a quote the author read in a coffee shop by Eleanor Roosevelt stating “Do one thing every day that scares you.” Ultimately, Noelle decided to make her 29th birthday the start to her yearly challenge to do something every day that scared her. I actually only just began reading the book so I cannot provide my full review quite yet, only my adoration of the concept.
I found myself relating to the author when she seemed to have discovered that she is more fearful now than her younger self and she found herself to be less social now than before. It struck a nerve with me. I don’t think I’ve realized some fears that have sort of snuck up on me through the years. It’s nothing that would be blatantly obvious, more so under the radar.
On the other hand, my twenty-three year old self would never think twice about anything. I would jet set anywhere at any time. I would make plans with friends at the drop of a hat. I wouldn’t worry too much. I thought I was invincible. Now I feel myself contemplating things over and over. I am hesitant in situations I would never have dreamt of being weary about ten years ago.
So, one of my goals for 2012 consists of me doing something that scares me every week. I thought each week may be a little more feasible and manageable for me rather than every day and I don’t want to set myself up for failure.
Every Friday I’ll keep myself accountable by posting what I’ve accomplished each week to move past any given fear.
This week I’ve focused on the “be more social” aspect of my existence. I opened myself to accepting invitations that came my way. I’ve made some plans with friends that are now on my calendar. It’s funny as more than a few plans came to fruition as soon as I opened myself up to receiving the opportunities.
I can say with certainty that this little project will assist me to grow as a person. I look forward to the discoveries and the adventure.
Have a great weekend.
Would you ever consider this type of challenge? What fears would you like to overcome, if any?